Hope Chris did ok during the holidays. Very sad. I am at a loss for words, sounds like in sickness and health doesn't mean what it used to. Bring him back to US so his family can help but what about your pledge to him. Would he have abandoned you to have fun weekends. Did you only like him when he was good-looking and a model? You shouldn't give up on him, he is yours for life, not his parents. Get it togehter, girl, and find a way to make it work. This may sound mean and you may say something about walking in your shoes...I have, I am and I didn't turn my back and give him back to his parents cause it was too sad, too inconvenient, not the lifestyle I wanted.